Feminist Porn Awards 1: “Screw equality, bitches!”

You want proof for my assertion that the “sex-positive” feminist goal is to become as free and powerful as men are sexually?  Look no further than the feminist porn awards, especially this gem (huge trigger warning):

Whilst women the world over are fighting for equality, there remain a minority* whose lot is to obey the strong. Luckily for them, there are enough feisty women around who enjoy nothing more than to show their ‘little missies’ how to serve. This is porn that is from a genuine female point of view, brought to you from Britain’s first female porn director, Anna Span.

What the sex-positive philosophy is advocating here, as well as in general, is not a real revolution in erotica, pornography or even sex-it is advocating that women be able to dominate other women (and sometimes men) in the current way that men dominate us.  No woman should have to be subordinate, and no woman should be dominant.  It is not any more acceptable for a woman to dominate than a man-in fact, it shows how much bullshit gender is.  As Dworkin once said, it proves that we’re more like men than we ever thought we could be.  (biological superiority: world’s most dangerous idea.)

Why should we want to be like our oppressors?  We should want to pull men down to our level, not to fight each other for a place equal to them while other women will remain beneath us.  As women have entered the workplace and gathered some political, economic and social power, the more powerful women are becoming more like men.  The women who get ahead in the workplace are those who don’t have children and who behave just as men do.  And these “feminists”–who want to be powerful women–are of course imitating the model of success and power that currently exists.  We must not accept that masculinity is somehow better than femininity, even though ours give us less success.  The system is the problem.   It rewards aggressiveness, competitiveness, and a sociopathic lack of empathy.  We cannot mold ourselves to the system, for we would cease to be women-identified, leaving the women who remain women-centered and the Black, the poor, and the prostituted women at the bottom of the heap.

And no doubt, with this new sexual model proposed by the sex-positives, women will be raped more, and the women who aren’t raped will be more likely rape other women or socially “weaker” men.  Men rape because they are hypersexed, eroticize dominance, and feel entitled to what they want.  When women do this too, we will follow the same path.   This is equality, yes, but it’s not liberation.  We should not desire sex the male way: emotionless, purely physical, centered around the orgasm and the fuck, yet dirty and degrading for whoever “bottoms.”

Sex-positives say : I can fuck women too.   I say we should stop fucking period.

*Probably not white ladies.

(Wow, I feel kind of pretentious)

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One response to “Feminist Porn Awards 1: “Screw equality, bitches!”

  1. I think the writing was great! so ideas i hadnt really looked at at the time. great post Msc.

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